The ego attack!

People nowadays have become resistant to feelings. Feelings that should flourish, are being suppressed by a mask of 'ego'.
"Why should I take the first step?"
"Why is it always ME who has to kneel down?"
In this fight of 'ego' es, we sometimes lose the bond that we share with our loved ones.

I don't understand why our generation prefers this 'being silent' technique when they are upset with someone or something.
The correct way to handle a situation is to talk. Say it out and let your emotions flow.

Stop focussing on winning the argument. Instead, focus on winning the person you love.
These various social platforms have made it easier to reach a person, but the efforts to reach, have decreased.
The feeling of the so called self respect has overcame the feeling of love. Self respect is, when you keep your head high respecting the other person's feelings too.
It's very easy to remain silent in such conditions or to keep our thoughts inside us, but it takes courage to speak up, to show your emotions and stop that person from letting go.
I hope my words help someone to change their perspective of expressing their thoughts.

Keep supporting! Follow for more content!

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The wait and the hope!

I saw her in cafe coffee day that day. She was wearing a black dress and had a bouquet full of red roses in her hand. Wearing a crown she was laughing with her friends and I was sitting just opposite to her. That was the day when I betrayed my chocolate truffle cake which used to be my new love. That sight of her made me so mesmerized that I forgot my coffee was hot not a cold one and I burnt my tongue sipping it. I was a very simple guy, not too hot, not too handsome. The only accessory I used to wear was my 2.5 power spectacles for my myopic eyes. The first time I got attracted to someone was my 6th grade science teacher but I realised it very soon that she is not the one. She couldn't be actually. 😜 Then I met a girl in 8th standard. I felt something new, something fresh in me, something that I experienced for the very first time in my life. Maybe, love! One day I gathered all my courage and sat behind her. Luckily, I forgot to bring my lunch that day and got a reason to t...
Read more

I want my life back!

Is this the life we dreamt of? Is this the place we wanted to reach? While earning the basic requirements of life, we all forgot how to live! Why it becomes so important to earn more than the guy in our group who earns the most? Why it becomes so important to be perfect in every situation? Don't we miss the crazy innocence of our childhood? The time we used to spend in playing games with our friends has been lost somewhere. I wish I could get that time back. The time when there was no mobile phone in our hands. The only way to talk was to meet and spend hours together. The time when we used to have creativity and not just cram everything and follow the world blindly. Why are we in such a hurry every single time now? What's the race for? Its okay to have a flaw, there will be someone who would accept you like this. Its okay to not earn too much, you can either have too much money or atleast some time for yourself. Time to live actually! Its okay to have a breakup, there ...
Read more

The missing feeling of contentment!

Why? Why do we start feeling low on such small things in the world? Why is finding happiness becoming difficult day by day? Why do we find it easier to blame someone for our misery rather than taking it on us and analysing the problem? Answer to all these whys is probably the loneliness we have in our heart, that missing feeling of contentment and that stress we all are dealing with in our routine life. Never let your heart go through a situation that it doesn't deserve. A situation that you don't want. Set it free and let it explore the happiness itself. There is nothing you can't do, its just that you have to keep going. And for keep going you need to have strong motivation and will power. This will power and motivation will keep your hopes high always and thats what you need to succeed. A single ray of hope can do magic! One sided lovers have just that one single hope, that one day i will win his/her heart. They never lose it. A poor farmer just has that one single h...
Read more